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There is something special about living on the African continent. It’s a place where the world passes through enroute to discover themselves. It’s a place where lions can still roar as kings and people still smile.

Africa is where my heart is. It is where I took my first breath and plan to take my last breath. It’s where my language and people were born. It’s a place that inspired great writers and poets with its beauty. It’s a place where you can find and lose yourself. It’s a place where you meet the world.

The celebration of Africa Day

Africa has always been a place everyone wanted a piece of. We may now be all self-governed but we still face challenges such as poverty, unemployment, lack of education and access to healthcare.

My biggest fear right now is that Africa’s doors are welcoming China too much. Yes we need investment, but we should never stop making sure that China doesn’t get more of Africa than we would want to give. We have a continent rich in everything that will be plundered.

Read more on:

  1. https://mg.co.za/article/2019-05-25-00-this-africa-day-the-continent-is-at-a-crossroads
  2. https://www.timeslive.co.za/news/africa/2019-05-24-what-you-need-to-know-about-africa-day/
  3. https://www.brandsouthafrica.com/people-culture/history-heritage/celebrate-africa-day-with-brand-south-africa

10 inspiring quotes about Africa

  1. “I am not African because I was born in Africa, but because Africa was born in me” – Kwame Nkrumah
  2. “Africa is one continent, one people and one nation.” – Kwame Nkrumah
  3. “We are all children of Africa, and none of us is better or more important than the other. This is what Africa could say to the world: it could remind it what it is to be human.” – Alexander McCall Smith
  4. “You know you are truly alive when you’re living among lions.” – Isak Dinesen, Out of Africa
  5. “Africa is not a country, but it is a continent like none other. It has that which is elegantly vast or awfully little.” – Douglas Wilder
  6. “Everything in Africa bites but the safari bug is worst of all.” – Brian Jackman
  7. “Africa’s not a color – it’s a place.” – Trevor Noah
  8. “If I have ever seen magic, it has been in Africa.” – John Hemingway
  9. “You cannot leave Africa, Africa said. It is always with you, there inside your head. Our rivers run in currents in the swirl of your thumbprints; our drumbeats counting out your pulse; our coastline the silhouette of your soul.” – Bridget Dore
  10. “When you leave Africa, as the plane lifts, you feel that more than leaving a continent you’re leaving a state of mind. Whatever awaits you at the other end of your journey will be of a different order of existence.” – Francesca Marciano

There are three things I know for sure: I’m not done traveling; I want my kids to travel with us; I don’t want to wait.

I am still lusting after Morocco and Cuba, but it doesn’t stop me from making my list longer and finding new destinations that I would like to explore. I’m always amazed at the new places I discover through National Geographic, Instagram and just by sheer luck while stumbling around the internet.

For some reason I also read a lot of inspirational travel quotes and here are a few of my favourites:

  1. “Live life with no excuses, travel with no regret.” – Oscar Wilde
  2. “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.” – Helen Keller
  3. “Better to see something once than hear about it a thousand times”
  4. “And then there is the most dangerous risk of all — the risk of spending your life not doing what you want on the bet you can buy yourself the freedom to do it later.” – Randy Komisar
  5. “It feels good to be lost in the right direction”
  6. “To Travel is to Live” – Hans Christian Andersen
  7. “Jobs fill your pocket, but adventures fill your soul.” – Jamie Lyn Beatty
  8. “Traveling – it leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller.” – Ibn Battuta
  9. “Work, Travel, Save, Repeat”
  10. ”Life is short and the world is wide”
  11. “If you reject the food, ignore the customs, fear the religion and avoid the people, you might better stay home.” – James Michener
  12. “Go, fly, roam, travel, voyage, explore, journey, discover, adventure.”
  13. “The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.” -Agustine of Hippo
  14. “Not all those who wander are lost.” -J.R.R. Tolkien
  15. “Travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer”
  16. “You can shake the sand from your shoes, but it will never leave your soul.”
  17. “Travel doesn’t become adventure until you leave yourself behind” – Marty Rubin
  18. “Traveling’s not something you’re good at. It’s something you do. Like Breathing.” – Gayle Foreman
  19. “I haven’t been everywhere, but it’s on my list.” – Susan Sontag
  20. “No matter where you go, there you are.”
  21. “To travel is to take a journey into yourself.” — Danny Kaye
  22. “Travel is like a giant blank canvas, and the painting on the canvas is only limited by one’s imagination.” — Ross Morley
  23. “When preparing to travel, lay out all your clothes and all your money. Then take half the clothes and twice the money.” — Susan Heller
  24. “You lose sight of things… and when you travel, everything balances out.” – Daranna Gidel
  25. “No one realizes how beautiful it is to travel until he comes home and rests his head on his old, familiar pillow.” – Lin

As a kid my parents dragged us all over South Africa, Zimbabwe, Botswana and Zambia. We camped everywhere. It taught us to be responsible for fire, dishes, cooking, safety, learn to plan itineraries and organize the packing up of a camp. It also encouraged us to learn about places (read maps), people and their cultures. It brought us closer as a family. I have so many stories to tell about funny things that happened on the road and I never want to stop having adventures because of that.

I think when you travel you expand your mind and see things differently. I want my kids to follow their hearts everywhere to collect passport stamps, make memories, have great big adventures and go beyond what I’ve been able to do. Travel is the best thing in the world you can give your kids next to a good education and love. Every day they do or see something new with you, you are helping them build memories that will warm their hearts even when you are gone.

We’re planning to take our 2 kids camping in the Kruger and our 2 year old has already spent a 9 day self-drive holiday on Reunion Island (with my parents in tow). I’m already planning where my 4 month old’s first passport stamp will come from! 

It’s a magical world out there – and kids love magic.

The only things you should never skimp on is saving, education and travel. You can take that to the bank.

Run your finances like a business

Your salary gets sliced into so many pieces and before you know it most of it has evaporated and you are left wondering where it all went. 

The simplest way to keep track of you income and expenses is to keep an eye on your bank statement, but if you have more than one account… you’ll need to put in a little more effort. Draw up a spreadsheet or do proper bookkeeping and see where you are wasting and can trim expenses. Make it a set task you do on a weekly basis.

Regularly go through your bank statements. You need to know what is happening. Cut what you don’t need.

Did you know that you should be getting insurance quotes on a yearly basis? Even if you don’t go with another insurer you can use comparative quotes to get a discount. I was with an insurance company for 12 years and eventually ended up paying almost R500 for household insurance a month – even with discounts. Finally last year I moved to Virseker and only pay R119… that is quite a saving! 

When you start adding up all the little savings you’ll be surprised at just how much it is.

Save like there is a tomorrow

Your goal should be to pay off your credit card bills in full at the end of each month and set aside money toward your emergency savings.

Suze Orman

I save on a monthly basis. I have an retirement annuity, 7 and 32 day notice accounts that each get a set amount transferred into it.  Also invested in property and pay extra towards the last few hundred thousands I still owe on the bonds.

Even more important than my own savings are our kids’ savings. Each kid gets a small amount from each of us into their own accounts.

Each month we also put a bit into a 32 day notice account for travels. This is our kitty for international travel so we can take the kids along without worrying about the extra costs.

However, spoil yourself sometimes. Go for that movie, eat out , buy that dress – but all in moderation.

Travel more often

The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page.

Saint Augustine

Families that travel together stay together… You don’t have to go to international destinations to travel, you can also explore our beautiful country too!

I have so many fond memories from family holidays in South Africa, Zimbabwe, Zambia and Botswana with my parents and sister – and I want to continue the tradition.

The more you know the smarter you’ll be with your money

I cannot stress this enough, invest in yourself and your education. Without learning something new and growing your skills you might as well give up on your future (and travel).

You don’t have to do the most expensive courses either. You can choose online short courses that will add to your CV. You can even opt for free courses offered by Google (if that’s your industry).

Point is, never stop being a learner.

Shopping Tips

If you live in a big city like Joburg, Cape Town or Durban you sometimes get the chance to shop directly from big warehouse distributors for everything from make-up to clothes and everything inbetween. Just ask me, there is nothing better than using your favourite (very expensive) cream and not paying full-price.

Wait for the sales. There is nothing wrong with wearing your clothes for a couple of seasons (shock/horror) and there is nothing wrong with buying end of season clothes to update your cupboard. Just shop smart, look for the styles that are timeless.

Don’t buy it just because it is on sale. The rush of finding something that is just such a great bargain can sometimes cloud your judgement. Give yourself a 10 minute breather in the shop before rushing to pay for it.


It’s a big world out there and I cannot wait to see more of it!
I recently chatted to one of my very best friends from high school and it turns out that she never left home, never went anywhere… because of anxiety.
If I hadn’t left and we kept on partying maybe her life could’ve been different too. Maybe I should’ve insisted she join me in the city. Maybe she wouldn’t have pulled back into her shell and maybe we would’ve moved to the city together and both gone places. Maybe… (Yes, I know we are all responsible for our own futures, but friends help friends…)

Madrid: Es famosa la estatua de Julia en la calle del Pez
Madrid: Es famosa la estatua de Julia en la calle del Pez (the famous Julia statue on Pez street in Madrid)

I never looked back. I went on to squeeze every last drop from every day. I went places, collected memories and passport stamps, fell in love, got married, traveled more, had kids and kept on going places.

Paris Louvre

I even plan what my youngest’s first passport stamp would be – just like I planned her sister’s to coincide with her namesake grandmother’s first overseas trip.  Yes, I am that awesome.
Wanderlust: n. a strong desire for or impulse to wander or travel and explore the world
My wanderlust I definitely owe to my parents. Before it was cool to go to our neighbouring countries we we’re there in an old baby blue Landrover my parents lovingly restored. We had setting up and packing up a camp down to less than an hour.
Some things I will never forget… There were the 2 nights at Nata Bird Sanctuary and pink flamingoes in the salt pans. Seeing Victoria Falls for the first time and a boat ride on the mighty Zambezi. Elephants crossing the main road in Zim. The night of the hyenas around our tent in Hwange National Park. That time my sister got bumped on the head by a warthog at Mlibizi. That time my dad had to fill up the Landrover in Zim and the pump was “hand driven”… and the Lannie had double tanks. Oh wait… that time we almost ran out of petrol in the middle of nowhere on our way to the Cape and we freed downhill. That same holiday my parents made us visit a bazillion museums!
Jip, my parents were pretty awesome back then too. Give them half a chance now and they will run off somewhere.

Mozambique with my parents and godmother
Mozambique with my parents and godmother

I’m glad I got great family holidays as a kid that didn’t involve hotels. I’m glad I got to see beyond Africa on my own and with hubby.
Live life with no excuses, travel with no regret – Oscar Wilde

We went all the way to Reunion Island and didn’t even get to see the volcano – how crazy is that!?

We stayed in La Plaine des Cafres, the closest town to Piton de la Fournaise. It is only 27km… but can take you anything from 50 minutes to actually get to and from the volcano.

The road, as all roads on Reunion Island, is the stuff that nightmare are made of. They are narrow. They wind around sharp curves. They are scary as hell – but with spectacular views.

Piton de la Fournaise - Reunion Island Volcano

It was raining that day, but we thought the rain may stop and we might get view. We were too optimistic… it got worse. The black volcanic landscape eerily unfolded in the mist and rain. The vast empty landscape was beautiful, unusual and magical.

Piton de la Fournaise - Reunion Island Volcano

It was still an experience to just get to the top…

“The journey not the arrival matters.” –T.S. Eliot

If you are staying over in La Plaine des Cafres you might as well visit the Volcano Museum. The rock (or lava) samples were really interesting and Lexa loved getting her little hands on all the moving and interactive parts of the exhibition.

Volcano Museum Reunion Island

Volcano Museum Reunion Island

If you haven’t read the other posts about our Reunion Island family holiday, here are the article links:

Why, I’d like nothing better than to achieve some bold adventure, worthy of our trip.

Aristophanes

I miss travel. It has been 6 months since our last big trip. The struggle in my head and heart is real.

Photos from our first visit to Zanzibar

If you want to see more from my Zanzibar Travels..


Did you know that South Africa’s school holidays is starting sooner than usual? Not great news for me, because now it starts before my birthday, but it means that low season in Zanzibar coincides nicely!

When you have a friend in paradise 🙁

I see all these amazing pictures of what she sees and does on a daily basis and my heart just aches to live on a tropical beach somewhere. I know she works hard, but she gets to live a life that I want.

I want to go back to Zanzibar one day. I know I’ve been there, but it was literally in and out because of a family tragedy.

What I would do if I was in Zanzibar right now…

Obviously I would be in the water, taking photos, drinking cocktails, eating, going on tours – but… there is something else I want to do. It is out of my comfort zone, it is in the air and it scares me.

I have been wanting to do parasailing and fly boarding for some time now – however, I want to do it in paradise! Plus now that I have a friend with the inside scoop as a local, I wasn’t shy to ask who she would recommend…

Zanzibar Parasailing (www.zanzibarparasailing.com), which also offers diving, jet skis and what not, is owned by a South African and they have a great safety record. They are in Kendwa/Nungwi and their prices seem reasonable to me.

Don’t listen to what they say. Go see.

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  1. Plage is French for beach – thanks to our self-drive family holiday on Reunion Island. In Afrikaans, Dutch, German, Danish, Hungarian, Norwegian and Swedish it is strand.
  2. Taking a kid (toddler) on an international self-drive holiday isn’t as bad as I thought it would be. Plus one day she will have amazing photos of her very first international trip that I can tell stories about.
  3. Knowing how to say please, thank you, hello and do you speak English in the local language is a lifesaver. Add a smile and even the French won’t give you a hard time.
  4. I can survive in Germany and the Netherlands without speaking the language – thanks to being Afrikaans. Plus the Dutch really love hearing Die Taal.
  5. Sometimes you have to ignore the third world argument from your husband – because he’ll love going to that destination in the end. There are no mistakes…
  6. Getting lost is not the end of the world, but not carrying spare batteries is.
  7. Driving in the south of Ireland is an adventure I would never say no to. I did it once on my own and got my new husband behind the wheel the second time round. We will never forget the single lane road that was actually a double lane… and the bus!
  8. When you visit a place a second time around with the love of your life it’s even better than the first time! Plus you get to be the tour guide and human GPS. It’s weird, but you can send me back to any place I’ve been and a map just switches on in my head – just don’t ask me to drive around in Pretoria.
  9. You learn a lot about life and yourself. You change with all the new experiences.
  10. The world is wonderful, but home is always Africa.

To escape and sit quietly on the beach – that’s my idea of paradise.

Emilia Wickstead

When we visited Thailand I hated the more touristy areas, but Khao Lak… now that was paradise. It was probably low season and tourists still haven’t returned to Khao Lak completely after the 2004 tsunami. It was one of the worst hit towns in Thailand . We visited in 2013, 9 years after the tragedy. 250,000 people across 14 countries lost their their lives. It brought out the best in people in in what is one of the worst natural disasters on record.

You can also watch this movie based on a Spanish family’s experiences during the tragedy.

Khao Lak – beach paradise

Khao Lak was at the end of our holiday and we felt a little adventurous and hired a scooter on our second day. Yeah, we should never have done that..

However, we loved the beaches, restaurants and quiet shopping in Khao Lak! Plus the Khao Lak Bhandari Resort was so amazing!

This is why Khao Lak should be on your Thailand holiday itinerary

  • It’s only 80km from Phuket airport
  • Less tourists and cleaner beaches
  • No garish neon lights in sight (a-la-Patong)
  • Perfect for quiet family holidays with better snorkeling

What to do when you stay in Khao Lak

  • You can catch a (long) boat ride to the Similan Islands (if open to tourists)
  • Visit the Surin Islands
  • Krabi Elephant Sanctuary
  • Khao Lak Lam Ru National Park
  • Eat delicious food and enjoy the amazing beaches

We went to Reunion Island in 2018 with my elderly parents and 2 year old daughter on a self-drive/self-catering holiday for 9 days.

Here are my Reunion Island travel tips:

  1. Rent the smallest possible car that will fit your luggage (gasp). We rented a Renault Trafic 9 seater mini bus… and it was a scary drive! The roads are quite narrow and most of the town and scenic routes have a ditch on the right (passenger side) and a barely there yellow line shoulder. Plus you get to drive a left hand drive… Take the super waiver damage cover because plant life most certainly will hang over the road when the road is at its narrowest with a car coming from the front.
  2. Eat where the locals eat. The food will be traditional Creole and the portions bigger for a lot less. Check out for the takeaways painted in the Dodo beer colours.
  3. Learn some French or install a translation app on your phone. A lot of the locals, including business owners and staff, do not speak English.
  4. Sundays and Mondays not all attractions are open- this also extends to restaurants. However, if all else fails, go to the beach. If you happen to stumble over some black sand and rocks on the beach it’s probably volcanic rock.
  5. If you want to swim and sit on a great beach… look for the beach route. The best beaches stretch from Plage des Brisants to Plage de Boucan Canot – around Saint-Gilles.
  6. Install Google Offline Maps for Reunion Island. These maps have all the roads and most attractions. Plus you don’t need to delete them when you get home because they expire. Get the steps here.

You may also be interested in reading my article How much does (it) cost on Reunion Island?