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I’ve been avoiding enclosed malls since COVID hit in March last year – but today I ventured out…

Last year March I was at Hobby-X, I was working. Geek Media (that’s me) was live posting to Hobby-X’s accounts while chatting to exhibitors. I was aware of the virus that already had a foothold in China, US and Europe… I still remember saying to my husband that I hope someone hasn’t brought it over yet. The first case was announced on day 2 or 3 of the expo.
That was the last time I saw a lot of people in one enclosed space. I’ve avoided my usual mall-walking window-shopping excursions since.

Today I ventured out to Fourways Mall. It was eerily devoid of people. Starbucks wasn’t crammed to the brim as it always was. There wasn’t people walking on top of you or browsing through the clothing rails right next to you.
This is not how I remember shopping at Fourways was…

I made a point of greeting every worker today as I walked through Edgars, Woolworths, Miladys and Foschini. Everyone was trying to keep busy arranging clothes and cleaning – super eager to help and share more about the special deals available.

This is what it has come to, me not running through a shop and ignoring people or firmly telling them I don’t need help or I’m just browsing. It has come to where I stop to talk to people, asking random strangers how they are doing. I don’t want to be that person that makes the day worse in an already shitty situation.

I may not venture into a mall soon again, but I hope that when I eventually do return, they (the people) will all still there.

It is no secret that I work in Sandton and in Sandton it is all about the flash and the cash. You rarely see smiley, friendly people that strike up conversations with strangers. Today however, was somewhat different…

Finally I walked out of the office and stopped by Breadbasket for a little snack for us with dinner – which I never do. Then I went to the elevator that I never use and waited. I got in and pressed in the corner was this short girl. We rode the elevator one floor down in silence and then, as she started walking out, I said, “your make-up really looks nice”. Shyly she smiled and said thank you.

Then a mother and son entered the elevator. I guess I was still smiling because the lady piped up with a happy greeting. We exchanged pleasantries 1 floor down.

It is Sandton, these things (almost) never happen. I think it must be the summer weather we are experiencing that brings out smiles in the wintery hearts of Joburgers.

Next time you are stuck in an elevator with a stranger, pay them a compliment and let me know what the response was.